Aku tengah hangin dgn member aku sbb aku rasa dia over-demanding. I didn't even ask why did she request for more, bcos I was afraid I might raising my voice when I ask. Tengah hangin kan, orang kata baik diam. So I ended up with my own assumption - she has become an over-demanding person.
But being me, I couldn't settle down with my own assumption. Think about it again, she might have her own reason for asking for more. I didn't even ask & give her a chance to explain. She couldn't read my mind, so of course she doesn't know that actually I'm getting annoyed with her. So now, I'm not mad any more. I would ask her directly when I have the opportunity.
This reminds me to another experience. I was mad at my friend bcos she seemed like ignoring my sms after I refused to buy something from her. She was the one who smsed me first asking me to meet her & buy that thing. Since I haven't finish up that thing from my last purchase, so I told her that I didn't need it. But then, the sms mood (sms pun ada mood) changed. Masa tu aku rasa macam dia marah kat aku. Kalau ikut hangin, memang nak tanya dia, ko ni nak kawan dgn aku ikhlas ke, atau nk jual brg? Tapi pikir balik, that's not merely an assumption but more to an accusation. A big no to accuse your friend ok. So I just stopped smsing her & decided to resolve the problem later.
Until a few days later, I received an sms from her. Tapi ingatkan dia salah bg sms tu. Suddenly I felt like asking her directly, at the same time replying to tell her that I thought she had sent the sms tu the wrong person. I smsed her, tanya dia marah ke sebab taknak beli barang dia. She replied my sms, telling me on the other hand she thought I was the one who mad at her & the sms was indeed for me. She explained that she was really busy at that time, she traveled a lot so she could only manage to send a quick reply. Kan dah settle. Kami pun bergelak ketawa di atas kesensitifan masing2.
Kalau nak cerita pasal kawan2 ni banyak... tp malas lah nak taip pjg2 (mcm lah ni tak cukup pjg). Cuma di kesempatan ini, I'd like to express my gratitude for having amazing friends around. Kalau tak puas hati, sound direct, gaduh, pastu baik balik. So far, aku takde kawan yang gediks atau pun attention seeker. Alhamdulillah. We rocks!
Kesimpulannya, aku adalah seorang kawan yang baik (kepada kawan yang baik).
Hahaahaaa. =D
But being me, I couldn't settle down with my own assumption. Think about it again, she might have her own reason for asking for more. I didn't even ask & give her a chance to explain. She couldn't read my mind, so of course she doesn't know that actually I'm getting annoyed with her. So now, I'm not mad any more. I would ask her directly when I have the opportunity.
This reminds me to another experience. I was mad at my friend bcos she seemed like ignoring my sms after I refused to buy something from her. She was the one who smsed me first asking me to meet her & buy that thing. Since I haven't finish up that thing from my last purchase, so I told her that I didn't need it. But then, the sms mood (sms pun ada mood) changed. Masa tu aku rasa macam dia marah kat aku. Kalau ikut hangin, memang nak tanya dia, ko ni nak kawan dgn aku ikhlas ke, atau nk jual brg? Tapi pikir balik, that's not merely an assumption but more to an accusation. A big no to accuse your friend ok. So I just stopped smsing her & decided to resolve the problem later.
Until a few days later, I received an sms from her. Tapi ingatkan dia salah bg sms tu. Suddenly I felt like asking her directly, at the same time replying to tell her that I thought she had sent the sms tu the wrong person. I smsed her, tanya dia marah ke sebab taknak beli barang dia. She replied my sms, telling me on the other hand she thought I was the one who mad at her & the sms was indeed for me. She explained that she was really busy at that time, she traveled a lot so she could only manage to send a quick reply. Kan dah settle. Kami pun bergelak ketawa di atas kesensitifan masing2.
Kalau nak cerita pasal kawan2 ni banyak... tp malas lah nak taip pjg2 (mcm lah ni tak cukup pjg). Cuma di kesempatan ini, I'd like to express my gratitude for having amazing friends around. Kalau tak puas hati, sound direct, gaduh, pastu baik balik. So far, aku takde kawan yang gediks atau pun attention seeker. Alhamdulillah. We rocks!
Kesimpulannya, aku adalah seorang kawan yang baik (kepada kawan yang baik).
Hahaahaaa. =D
2 comments:
aku pun baik ngan kawan yg baik ngan aku.. but sometimes once broken it's difficult to go back to original state.. even though dah berdamai but the condition totally change.. sometimes i wonder, is it this is the friend that I knew some time ago...
tu lah when it takes so long nak baik balik... silent war wont do any good... works like cancer. by the time nak let out everything, dah terlambat sbb thing has changed.
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